Should kids have chores? This is a common question parents ask themselves as their kids start to grow older.
Giving children chores is actually one the most important things a parent can do for a child. It teaches children how to learn about responsibility. It also helps teach them important and valuable life skills which they take on into their adult lives.
Anyone who remembers being a child likely remembers the dread that came along with doing chores. Although most kids hate helping to keep the home clean by doing chores, it’s an important part of learning about the importance of responsibility. It’s also an easy way to start enforcing important life skills early on in a child’s life.
Many kids consider doing chores tedious and pointless. But, doing chores actually has many benefits which help kids throughout their lives. Ingraining these types of important childhood behaviors in kids will make them more well-adjusted in their adult lives.
These chores can even set them up for adult success. In fact, kids who do chores throughout their lives are more likely to be successful than those who do not do chores.
Chores are an influential factor which predict the professional and personal success in adulthood and influence a child’s success as an adult.
Kids who do not do chores miss out on learning about the value of work early on in life. This directly impacts how they will view work as adults. This is because there is a direct correlation between childhood influences and adult behavior.
Studies also suggest that children who do chores early on in life learn the importance and value of contributing to their families. These children grow to become more well-adjusted and successful. They even have more successful work lives and better adult personal relationships.
It is a well-known fact that processes and responsibilities instilled early on in life predict the well-being and behavior of children in their adult lives. This means that children who do chores when they are young are more likely to be independent as adults and understand the value of work and responsibility.
Another pressing question parents ask themselves is whether or not they should pay their children to do chores. This is a question that is often up for debate.
Just as doing chores helps instill certain values and valuable life skills in children, so does giving them an allowance. Parents have various reasons for paying (or not paying) their children to do their chores.
On the one hand, giving children an allowance for their chores such as vacuuming around the home or mopping your tile floors can help children learn early on in life about the importance of managing money. It also teaches them that in life, they have to work hard for the things they want. In addition, they learn they must work hard to earn money.
Paying children for their chores teaches them the value of money and how to save. It also teaches them how to handle and manage their money. Teaching these lessons early on in life sets children up for financial success in the future. Paying children to do their chores also gives them the incentive to do more around the house.
On the other hand, some parents believe that doing chores is a part of being a member of a household. They believe that children should understand household chores are expected of them as a member of the family.
Instead, these parents give their kids an allowance which is not associated with chores to teach them the value of managing and handling money.
So, should kids have chores or not? Should they get paid for it?
Studies prove that giving children chores sets them up for both personal and professional success in the future. This is why parents should not overlook the importance of giving their children chores.
Deciding whether or not parents should pay their children for doing their chores will depend entirely on the values and life lessons they want to instill in their children.
Parents who want to teach their children about the importance of working hard for their money may decide to pay them for their chores. Parents who want to teach their children about what is expected of them in a household might avoid paying their children for chores and instead give them an allowance.
Whatever a parent decides, it is important to remember that the lessons and values they teach their children will have a direct impact on their adult behavior in the future. This is why these important life lessons should never be overlooked.
Allen Michael is the Founder and Editor of Home Viable, a website that he started to provide readers with tips on home efficiency and automation. He draws on his engineering background combined with his family-of-four experiences for his articles.